Guilt Over Masturbating – Over Guilt Masturbating
In looking back on who I was as an early teenager, I realize that I loved to jack off – A LOT. What teen doesn’t though really ? It used to be more about number of orgasms, since I didn’t really understand edging. I would cum several times a day. Because I lived in a house of five people, (luckily I did have my own room), I would often end up in the bathroom, jacking off with lotion (pre-finding-Albolene – even today the smell of Jergens gives me memories of teenage bating).
One the most embarrassing moments of my life occurred while I was masturbating. It is unfortunate that it did occur because it made me feel guilty over masturbation. It went like this:
I was happily masturbating in the bathroom, usually on the toilet which is such an unfortunate place to be as teenager. Why not in my room? I was knocking one out basically. My cock was really greased up with lotion and I was working on it really good.
Next thing I know the bathroom sliding door is opening and my dad is there. He didn’t knock. I don’t remember exactly what he said, but basically he made me feel guilty over doing what comes naturally. This was when I was maybe 14 or 15. Then over the next couple of years every once in a while he’d mention this, like when I would be getting lotion out of the closet or something. It really made me feel guilty about my masturbating, and especially since I was fantasizing about men, cocks, muscles, hairy chests, balls, etc.
It is unfortunate that in our puritan society that even masturbation, a totally normal healthy thing for people to do, can be looked down upon. It still happens. Even once men come out and admit they are gay, self gratification is shunned. It is still relegated to the bathroom, the shower, or under the covers.
No longer! Now’s the time for men who really get off on masturbation to come out. Social networking on the internet with blogs, and such sites as BateWorld are so great for turning men on to masturbation and getting rid of that guilt feeling, that even as adults we carry with us. We can band together and be proud of our cocks, our male sexuality, our love for edging.
Bators Unite 
November 11, 2010 at 7:35 pm
Though I was never caught, all things sexual seemed to be a forbidden as a given in my home. My friends made for fun growing up, with their real interest in c2c, mutual masturbation, and public solo as we escaped to the boy’s world of wilderness areas of parks, tents, and sleep-overs. That took the guilt out with another, but solo, there was still a let down after cumming that felt like tinges of guilt.
It took awhile to discover the joy of becomming a sensual being…letting go to play with rings and toys and whatever cums to mind as fully appreciating our beings as an eroticlly charged wonderworld.
The tremendous joy of edging came in later life; the fabulous joy of goonstate only a bit later, thankfully. While I have very few opportunities to let go with others in this state, the times I have had in worship of cock masturbation with groups of others has been both satisfying and guiltless.
Perhaps the ritual I have developed of communing with my discharge has changed my attitude toward my feelings about the afterglow.
November 11, 2010 at 9:19 pm
Even once men come out and admit they are gay, self gratification is shunned. – Right!!! It´s a pity.
November 24, 2010 at 5:52 pm
I completely agree with you on the subject of banishing guilt from such a beautiful and natural act. It is disgraceful that shame be brought on young men for experiencing the wonders of their bodies, particularly by another male of our species. Being relegated to hide in some kind of shame instead of just seeking privacy to manipulate one’s genitals is pitiful. Thank God I’ve never been one of those “edge-of-the-toilet-seat” jackers, pumping furiously, praying that no one discovered or suspected that I might be masturbating. Being a 37 year old gay male with a couple of LTR’s behind me, I too am criticized by close friends for not having enough interest in pounding ass and sucking “cawk” and being “obsessed” with my own sexual gratification. I resent it tremendously because I know how to get myself off better than some random GWM from the internet, and frankly find 3-4 hours of self-absorbed masturbation to be a hell of a lot more satisfying than an awkward 12 minute tumble with a stranger who I’d wish I’d never met in the first place. Congratulations, Brother on a fantastic blog.
Brandon
New Orleans (aka ‘Masturbaker’ on BateWorld)
November 28, 2010 at 5:59 pm
“guilt” a young boy bating his cock is guilty of exploring his sexuality before his parents or elders were ready to discuss or explain it
“guilt” a young man bating his cock is guilty of insufficient mating skills to date and bed a young woman, with no partner, to get ‘relief’ from sexual urges and arousals….. masturbation is resorted to..(guys joking say we are liars, if we denying ever masturbating, we just not ‘admit’ being guilty of masturbation frequency vs. sex with a partner)
a boy feels embarassed of being caught masturbating, because of the commotion of an elder discovering the act. ..sex with partners is still a private affair… and masturbation is similar in thought..
sex and masturbation..sexual acts giving sensory reward for indulging into it..leaves us vulnerable to surroundings ..i suppose in a context of primary survival thought/instincts.. we seek ‘covering’ from potential predators, so we can indulge in sexual acts to procreat uninterupted.
least that covers the ‘sneekiness’ we all do when we all decide to worship our cocks..
the idea to live somehow to openly masturbate triggers theoretical scenerios which excite some of us..most it brought more calm to enjoy masturbating with less sneekiness worry..knowing and seeing via in person in a circlejerk, j/o party, or webcam..and messegeboards and blogs of KINDRED SPIRITS masturbating as you are masturbating..
i’d love to find a place or ranch, community to live which nudism and open masturbation ..outdoors, indoors, whether it fuels or be simple acknowledged by other nude MALE masturbators..
a place where the only act the commune of male nudist was solosexualism and mutual masturbation..
heck i’d drop everything and take my clothes, and move in with a well to do retired chronic masturbator who spends his time giving philosophy about the joys of masturbating and lust thrill of a bate session with others.
December 28, 2010 at 5:24 pm
Avid bator (have been since I was about 13) and I too have struggled for many years over sexual guilt. Especially masturbation. I had to hide in the shower or bathroom too. I tried to sneak in some porn once–had a magazine but hardly dared to look at it for fear of being caught. I was raised in a strict, conservative, Mormon household where masturbation was considered slapping “god” in the face; and a shame to the family.
Yet my cock always called; especially do to it’s size and beautiful proportion. The girls in high-school loved it and so why shouldn’t I? Still, it took until after being married for a time for much of the guilt to pass. Yet, even still at times I feel a twinge of guilt but rarely. Now I get lost in my cock and edge it up further and further. I bask in the glory of an engorged dick. I am come to terms with a lot of sexual confusion from those early years; coming out as bisexual just within the past 5 years.
I feel more sexually liberated to touch myself and enjoy making myself feel oh so good and enjoy having my large, explosive orgasms. Enjoy the magical sight of cum flying off into the air; the power involved to shoot sex juice that high into the air is impressive and arousing. I rejoice it how it feels, looks and even smells!! Bate on, bros!!